Does age matter ??
Eyes wide opened ...when the number comes out.. why ?
Is maturity directly propotional to your age..or what was it...
"maturity is directly propotional to the amount of humiliation you can tolerate."
Suddenly the expectations are high...people realise things have been achieved pretty early in life...
Is it pure luck, or all in born talent or may be the opprtunities utilised well !!
Some thing like.. "may be 1 in a million can do" or better still " you are going too fast, one day you will crash".. was it taunt.. or acknowledgement of something...
at the end...being famous is something...fulfilling somebody's expectations something else..
one does well, gives hope... hope turns into expectations... and fulfilling expectations leads to glory...whilst trying to fulfill expectations ...which need not be... leads to demise of self...
At the end.. who are you...one who was before he started...or the one who is trying to continue the start which was there...
Is it good to please each and all...or am I trying to live a life thats not mine.
..its an alter ego...a soul thats forced to hide somewhere...because he is not expected
maybe its the confused soul...which knows what to do...or maybe he doesnt..
he knows the reason...
but the reason of the reason is what he cant really grasp..
he hates himself for being himself...yet its him what makes him...
things are done which are supposed to be...but is the statisfaction of right there ??
Frown, at my own self
For THE reason still a mystery to me...
wondering why I am doing so
I do it still unwantingly...
4 comments:
I could very easily relate to this blog of yours. Rather I believe it is true for every individual. We all live our lives fulfilling others expectations/wishes and at times there seems to be no end of it!!
In order to please ones near ones, an individual does things he is expected to do and slowly finds oneself deferring from ones’ own aspirations/wishes.
Some how I don’t find any harm in it. If we can make our loved ones happy, then we will automatically gain contentment and happiness.
But it is very import for a person to maintain equilibrium, between their expectations and his aspirations.
Else he will be soon asking the question “Who am I”
I guess the idea was to over-achieve..setting a goal too high..nothing is impossible.. but things require time.. the time was not given..
Oops ..So you were talking about your expectations, I interpreted it as what others have from us!!
Fine .. Carry on !
setting urself, is also for others...sometimes words are not there...but its all in the eyes..
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